Four Types of Sex: Expanding Your Palate
When I ask people to describe “hot sex,” I often get either blank faces or descriptions of something intense and passionate, usually with the image of red lights, quick shadows, and no words being exchanged. Following up, I’ll inquire about how someone feels about engaging in that type of act, and while some wholeheartedly agree that is a goal, others freeze and go, “But that doesn’t feel like me.”
There are many different directions we can take and explore here.
Still, I want to look at the various “flavors” of sex that any person can have and recognize that it does not lie on a scale of zero to ten but rather a wide variety of nuances, feelings, intensities, and experiences.