Training for Transitions: Retraining Your Brain

Whether you, your kid(s), or your partner(s) are going back to school, the end of August is full of many transitions that can disrupt our daily “norms”. And even if we’re not about to go back to school or supporting someone who is, this time of year marks the start of a transition of seasons – filled with less daylight, colder weather, and generally more on the “to-do list”. With transition comes the need to reprioritize, reorganize, and overall do some retraining of our brains to make this transitional period more manageable. So whether you’re facing back-to-school season or transitioning to increasing empathy for those that are, here are some important things to be mindful of and some ways you can best help “future you” for a seamless transition:

 

  1. Embrace the Change: Accept that transitions are a natural part of life and an opportunity for growth. Shift your mindset from viewing change as a challenge to seeing it as an exciting new adventure.
  2. Plan and Prepare: The more you can plan ahead, the less overwhelming a transition will feel. Outline your goals, identify potential challenges, and create a general plan to navigate the change.
  3. Stay Flexible: Adaptability is key during transitions. Be prepared to adjust your plans and expectations as new information and experiences come to light. Flexibility will help you navigate unexpected challenges more effectively.
  4. Establish Routines: Creating new routines can provide a sense of stability amidst change. Establishing daily or weekly habits can help ground you and maintain a sense of normalcy.
  5. Focus on Self-Care: Transition periods can be physically and emotionally draining. Prioritize self-care by maintaining healthy habits, such as regular exercise, balanced nutrition, and sufficient sleep. Taking care of your well-being will help you manage stress better.
  6. Reflect and Learn: Use the transition as a time for self-reflection. Consider what you’ve learned about yourself and how you’ve grown. This reflection can help you build resilience and approach future changes with greater confidence.
  7. Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to lean on friends, family, mentors, or a mental health professional during transitional periods. They can offer valuable advice, encouragement, and perspective making the process feel less isolating.

Transitions are a part of the journey and while they can be daunting, they also offer a chance for new experiences and personal growth. By embracing change, planning thoughtfully, seeking support, and prioritizing self-care, you can turn these periods of uncertainty into stepping stones toward your future.